We are surrounded by people who need hope in their lives. We don’t often see their need because a lack of hope is not easily communicated. People aren’t prone to say, “I need hope.” Nonetheless, when we listen closely, we can hear the cries of the hope-needers. Or oftentimes we can see it in their actions.
For example, the student with no hope of passing won’t study. Why bother?
The couple whose marriage is in trouble won’t seek counseling because (they think) it’s all over anyway.
The relative who hasn’t spoken to you for three years won’t try. What’s the point?
But give any of these individuals hope and some exciting things can happen…
Now here’s the good news: Hope is a choice. You can make a decision to be a hope-filled person. You can make a decision to share hope with others. Even if your own need for hope is running a little dry, you can still give others hope. In the process of doing so, watch what happens. Your personal hope quotient is bound to rise.
Author John C. Maxwell says if there’s hope in the future, there’s power in the present.
Hope is the great activator! If you want to make things happen in your life, and you want to encourage others to make things happen in their lives, rely on hope.
Discipline yourself to see the “hopeful” side of any incident. Include expressions of hope in your self-talk. Share words of hope with the people who surround you.
Am I offering you a “head in the sand” approach to life? Am I saying that you should walk around with a smile on your face and a song in your heart, oblivious to daily reality? Of course not.
However, I do believe that we have a choice. Hope is a choice. We can look at any unfortunate or bothersome situation and say it’s hopeless, or we can look for the hope in that situation. The choice is always ours.
Take a moment today and think about the last 24 hours. Did you spread hope, either by words or action? Or did you choose the opposite approach?
Are you a hope-giver? Do you want to be? Look forward now to the next 24 hours. Think of three ways that you can be a hope giver. Now go do it… and watch what happens.
Adapted from Strategies for Success
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