“Hell isn’t a place, it’s other people,” is a quote loosely translated from French philosopher Jean-Paul Satre’s one-act play No Exit. Keynote speaker Todd Davis got a chuckle from the SUCCESS Live Long Beach crowd when he asked if anyone could relate to this quote. That’s because we’re often measured by the results we get, but our results rely on other people—“People who won’t do, or change, or behave the way we want them to.”
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Davis, who is Franklin Covey Chief People Officer and author of Get Better: 15 Proven Practices to Build Effective Relationships at Work (Nov. 7, 2017; Simon Schuster), says 30 years of coaching the world’s most successful leaders about legendary Stephen R. Covey’s development principles has taught him this: Change stems from influence, and influence comes from successful relationships with others. Because we get results through others, the most powerful tool we have is the ability to influence—starting with ourselves and growing to influence others. “Meaningful change starts with us.”
TODD DAVIS ADDRESSES THE SUCCESS LIVE CROWD IN LONG BEACH. (COBA IMAGES)
“The most effective successful influential people look in the mirror every day to ask themselves, ‘What do I need to do differently today?’” —Todd Davis
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Running time: 24:36
Filmed September 2017 at SUCCESS Live in Long Beach